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The Faster Horse Trap Every Beauty Brand Falls Into

Cassandra Bankson, founder of Marketing With Meaning, speaking at a Forbes event

Cassandra Bankson, founder of Marketing With Meaning. Image: Forbes.

Your customers are asking for the wrong thing. Here is how to hear what they actually need.

One of the points I made on the SXSW stage this year, in a panel I wrote about in these notes, was about the trap of building exactly what people ask for.

If you went back to the 1920s and asked everyone who commutes every day what they want, they would say faster horses, when what they could have used was a car.

People are very good at describing their problem in the language of the solution they already know. A faster horse. A cheaper version of the thing that exists. A small tweak to yesterday. Your job, if you are the expert, is not to take that order. It is to hear the need underneath the request and build the thing they could not picture because it did not exist yet.

How the trap looks in beauty

This shows up constantly. Customers ask for a stronger active when what they actually need is a routine they will stick to. They ask for more products when the real win is fewer steps done consistently. They ask for the trend of the week when the boring thing that works would serve them far better. If you simply build what the survey says, you end up with a faster horse that nobody loves a year from now.

Listening to your customer still matters. It matters enormously. But listening is not the same as transcribing. The brands and creators I see do this well ask their audience constantly, and then they sit with the answers long enough to find the car hiding behind the request for a faster horse.

How to actually do it

Ask people what they are trying to accomplish, not which feature they want. Watch what they already do instead of only asking what they say. Look for the workaround, the thing they tolerate, the step they skip. That is where the real product lives. Then build a first version, put it in front of your earliest customers, and let their reaction tell you what to fix.

Give people the outcome they are really after, even when they asked for something smaller. That is the whole job. If you want help finding the car hiding in your own customer feedback, that is exactly what I do with the brands I work with.

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